Can you Really Substitute Dating in Real Life with Porn?

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The current generation is increasingly falling into the trap of porn, failing to notice its negative impact.

While browsing through the internet, we recently came across a particular question, asked by an 18 years old boy. The question was, “Why should boys even bother dating anymore when the internet is filled to the brim with free porn?”

This sort of mindset highlights two main problems. One, the highly sexualised nature of our society. It has succeeded in making young minds believe that relationships exist for the sole purpose of sex.

Two, how the pornography industry has curated this mindset and used it to their advantage.

With easy and unprecedented access to porn on the internet, the current generation comes across explicit content on the internet at an extremely young age.

With porn being as fake and exaggerated as it is, these young impressionable minds are completely unaware of this. They fall into the trap of believing porn is an exact representation of real-life.

As a result of this, relationships become all about fulfilling your sexual pleasures.

For long now, such content has shaped the mindset of the current generation to be this way. Adding on to this is the lack of parental guidance in these matters.

If you’re currently on the internet in search of answers to your questions and doubts about why you can’t just replace intimate relationships in real life with porn; read along to find your answers.

5 Reasons why Dating in Real Life is Way Better than Porn:

1. Porn separates you from reality

When you’re in the confined space of your room, indulging in porn, you might feel content with yourself.

As currently your desires are being met.

When in reality, once it’s all done is when you realise you’re more alone than ever.

Isolated from the rest of the world.

Porn addiction is the same as any being addicted to any other substance. Once you get your fix you might feel elevated and happy when you’re on a high.

But, once the high wears down, you face the harsh truths of reality.

Porn isolates you from the rest of the world.

Soon you’re no longer able to relate to anything your peers are doing. While they continue to go on cute dinner dates and picnics and in the end get married to the love of their life, you’ll still be stuck in your room masturbating to a video of a pornstar, who isn’t even aware of your existence.

2. Porn usage will restrict you from developing better hobbies

As you start consuming more and more porn, your brain will start craving for it even more.

And soon before you know it, you will be spending a ridiculous amount of time online viewing porn. Imagine how productively you could use your time, instead of sitting in your room and watching porn.

On the other hand, a healthy relationship can open up for a plethora of chances where you could better yourself and use your time more productively to enjoy life.

3. Porn affects your health

Research shows that excessive consumption of pornographic content and masturbation can often lead to various health defects like,

– Chronic ejaculation dysfunction

– Delayed ejaculation

– Lethargy

– Brain fog and concentration problems

– Social anxiety and emotional numbness

This restricts you from the simple pleasures of life and even lessens your chances of actually experiencing your sexual fantasies in real life, in a healthy way.

4. Porn creates an unfillable emotional void

As humans, we are inherently social beings. For our body to function normally, we require social interaction and are emotionally dependent on it.

Porn rewires the brain, detaching the individual from the society.

This can often lead to serious cases of depression in an individual.

Once an individual falls into a pit of depression, they are quick to pull away from the society as a whole.

They tend to corner themselves, in turn, feeding into their brain a long list of anxiety disorders. As you numb your mind and body with graphic sexual images and videos, you are missing out on the opportunity of building some real, amazing relationships with your family, friends, and the community around you.

5. Porn can make you feel lonely

Increased pornography use gives rise to loneliness and loneliness, in turn, leads to increased pornography use.

Research has significantly associated porn use with loneliness, it shows a clear two-way relationship between both the components. Increased feelings of loneliness can make a person uncomfortable with social situations, making them pull away from any form of social interaction, only to add to the loneliness.

Adding to this, the lack of a partner, whom you can confide in at the end of the day, can have serious defects on the mental health of a person.

Conclusion

No matter what anybody says, porn can never be a substitute for having a real partner.

It can never replace the content feeling of sharing emotions with your SO at the end of the day.

Your screen isn’t going to love you back or listen to how bad your day was. The pornstars you spend time watching daily aren’t going to be there for you when you need someone to hold at night.

It’s a fool’s paradise that is only going to leave you feeling unwanted and unloved at the end of it.

Watching porn may give you the illusion of sexual arousal and satisfaction when in reality it will leave you more alone than ever before. You’re basically teaching your brain that you don’t need a partner. That a distraction is good enough to forget the real thing. In reality, porn can never replace a loving, caring partner.

A partner who’ll be there for you and provide the kind of attention and support that you need and want. 

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9 Responses

  1. Nonsense…is this author a Mormon?! Porn is healthy decompression. Rape rates have been drastically reduced due 2 porn. Most people r overworked, over stressed and sleep deprived, so they don’t have the energy or $$ 2 date. Rubbing one out is only natural and harmless. No expectations, no feelings hurts, and no pukey picnics

    1. Hi Geedee, we do believe that watching porn can be good for you sometimes too! Just to clarify, we are not Mormon xD

  2. Watching porn is more convenient than anything else. When ur in a long distance relationship, single or incel, getting ur rocks off is a quick way 2 relax. It also reduces harmful stressors & unwanted pregnancies, and encourages better sleep. Relationships r tricky mind-games, shoe-horned into crazy schedules. Men love porn b/c it’s a different women every day. Women hate porn b/c there’s no emotional connection. Need I say more😂

    1. Hey! Thanks for your perspective on watching porn. We provide solutions to those who are addicted to porn, we don’t necessarily think that watching porn is bad. We agree that it can be good sometimes too 😛

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